Ms. A. is a fragile borderline patient with a weak alliance (total CALPAS score = 4.0; this project's sample mean = 5.58; median = 5.67). The CALPAS component indicating patient commitment was particularly low (2.3).
Excerpt 1:
This excerpt occurs very early in the first session of therapy after a brief period of superficial talk during which Ms. A., a female patient, asks the therapist many questions.
WES

T
h So, for this therapy, basically you shape the session by talking about things that are on your mind rather than me asking you a lot of questions.
Q

How do you feel about that?

P
t.: I don't know. I was thinking this morning, well, what am I going to ask, what . . . (
pause) Um. I don't know, I guess just one big issue with me is, um, I don't know if it is a fear of being alone or I don't know what it is, but I don't—I don't expect very much from people. Like I am thinking specifically my boyfriend. Uh, he doesn't treat me very well, and I don't have the strength to break up with him. And I mean, it's so—it affects so much of my life. It's not just like he's part of me, it affects everything and it's just different. . . .
Q

T
h.: Okay, can you elaborate on what you mean by that, when you say it affects so much of your life?
Here the therapist has tentatively introduced the therapeutic dyad in what seem like what Gaston and Ring
21 have termed “work-enhancing strategies.” However, the mere mention of patient and therapist in one sentence may provoke anxiety in a borderline patient. Being linked as a team with the therapist is followed by associations of wanting to break up with her boyfriend and how the relationship affects everything. The patient moves immediately away, and the therapist follows her. However, later in the session, after she talks about her mistrust and fear of men, he again intervenes:

P
t.: I'm afraid of men. (
pause) I'm very anti-men.
TI

T
h.: I'm a man.

P
t.: Right! (
laughs) You're different. Just the topic of men makes me angry and scared at the same time. My grandfather molested me, my father beat me, boyfriends have beat me, one left me for dead, got me into prostitution, got me into drugs. Another one had a relationship with another girlfriend for two years while I was with him.
Again the therapeutic couple has moved out of the transference as the therapist encouraged the patient to talk about her history with men. Finally, toward the end of the session, he intervenes again and redirects her toward the transference:
TI

T
h.: So I wonder if you have some anxieties about me?

P
t.: Yes, but no. You're sitting far away . . . (
laughs) like I wouldn't sit like a mute, you know. And I just think it was you that asked me at the beginning do I have a preference, man or woman, and I am not comfortable with women, either, so I don't want to make my fear worse. You know, like avoiding men would just make it harder for me to not be afraid, so I am not going to generalize. It's got to start somewhere. Besides, you're different. (
laughs)
Q

T
h.: What do you mean by that?

P
t.: I don't know, I mean, I'm not uncomfortable, 'cause sometimes I want to talk, but it just—I just remember that, well, at nine o'clock I'll walk out of here and it's just—it's not like a friend that really cares about me and, you know, this is your job. But at the same time I feel safe here and you don't intimidate me. You don't scare me, so. . . . I don't know, I just—I'm not comfortable, but I am, you know what I mean?
TI

T
h.: The boundaries are fairly clear here.

P
t.: Yeah.
TI

T
h.: And that makes you feel more comfortable.

P
t.: Uh-huh.
TI

T
h What makes you feel somewhat uncomfortable is wondering how much I will really care about you.

P
t Yeah.
TI

T
h That, you know, actually at ten to nine the session ends and then you wonder, you might leave feeling, like, does he really care about me?

P
t Yeah, I mean, this is your job and, like, I just think sometimes—and I can't believe I'm saying this; I've never said this to any therapist I've ever had—just that this is what you do for a living and I don't know how many years you've been doing this and you listen to people's stories all day, every day. And, like, I would imagine at some point you just get like tired of hearing people's stories and like I just wonder, like, does he think I'm feeling sorry for myself or is she pathetic or, oh my God, is she sick, or you know what I mean? I just wonder what you're really thinking and are you ever bored? Are you ever, like, just tuning me out? But I just—I just hope that you really love what you do and you really care and I'll get the most out of this.
SS

T
h.:
Well, those concerns make a lot of sense.
Although this intervention appears to have been accepted and tolerated by the patient, immediately after there occurred an “acting in” that left both patient and therapist feeling bad. The patient continued by talking about a friend of hers who had committed suicide and the intense feelings of guilt and terror she had felt, which had led to her abandoning her friend just before the suicide. This occurred just as the session was ending, leaving the therapist feeling helplessly entrapped in a situation where he also had to “abandon” the patient as she was feeling bad and the patient feeling perhaps that she had been opened up only to be abruptly cast aside. This type of projective identification is typical of a borderline patient. This particular patient returned for only one more session before she terminated treatment.
Excerpt 2:
This excerpt occurs during the second session with Ms. A., which followed a 7-week delay and a no-show after the first session. It occurs about one-third of the way into the session after a gentle exploration of the patient's feeling depressed and victimized by her surrounding environment and unable to count on anyone.

P
t . . . I went back, and, I don't know, I—I try to talk to the therapist [a different one] because, like I told him afterwards, I feel, most of the time after I leave, more upset than before I come to the group, because I talk, I share my input, and then it just brings things up and it just goes nowhere. I mean he says nothing. I said, “Well, do you have any suggestions, like. . . . ” “No,” he says, “nothing.” He says, “Well, you are doing a lot, don't you think?” So, what, I should just [do] things like. . . . (
pause)
Cl

T
h So you like more suggestions.

P
t Yeah.
TI

T
h You probably find, say, me frustrating?

P
t Yeah.
TI

T
h Because I don't make any suggestions? It sounds like you need very, um—a clear indication of somebody caring about you by getting more actively involved and, you know, the type of therapy that I am doing with you is an analytic type of therapy, where I try to help you understand things at the time. Most of the time that doesn't feel to you like I care, like I am not actually doing anything.

P
t Mmm . . . (
pause) I don't know. I'm just—I'm confused.
Ass

T
h I think in the short term it might be gratifying to receive suggestions from people, but suggestions are a double-edged sword, as I am sure you are aware. They can be good or you can feel controlled—or you are not being given good advice, or somebody isn't taking the whole picture into account.

P
t Some of the suggestions I get . . . it's just like (
pause) I don't know, like the individual therapist I sometimes see at . . . just says things that leave me thinking a lot, you know. I wouldn't want suggestions, I guess because, like you said, it's too controlling and I don't want—I would probably take it as being told what to do. But, like, somebody said something last night in the group that left me thinking, and I guess that is why I keep going back. Um, (
pause) they were talking about anger. (
begins to cry) I don't know why I am crying. . . . Just saying that . . . um, something to the effect that it is easier to be angry than sad.
A

T
h Uh-huh.

P
t And it makes a lot of sense because, I mean, I have a lot (
pause) I know I have a lot to deal with and, um, I have often found myself very angry and never really understood it. Like I will just be like, oh my God and be so angry all the time. I'm just—I'm like consumed with anger. And, um, she was just saying that it's a lot harder to get in touch with sadness and (
pause) I identify with that. I. . . . (
crying; pause)
DI

T
h Well, sadness can be frightening because you could feel helpless. When you're angry, you feel you are stronger; and helplessness, while it is still not far away, generally you feel a little more active—a little stronger.

P
t.:
I don't know how to deal with sadness. Like sometimes I think, like, my God, I have so much to be sad about. Then I just feel like I am feeling sorry for myself or it's just that I'm so pathetic, like everybody has [unclear], just deal with it and move on, but (pause) I don't know, like I just wonder am I really dealing with anything. I am at school full time, all year round, even in the summer. I am working two jobs. I just—like I have no time. (pause; continues to cry)
Following this, the therapist's interventions become increasingly active and supportive, helping the patient in a more instructive way by offering comments on how to manage her life. The therapist moves away from the transference and any further exploratory work in an effort to shore up the patient, who is in danger of breaking down.
DI

T
h Well, I think that the activity does keep you from getting too sad. But you're wondering if in some way you're not dealing with the roots of what's making you sad.

P
t Yeah.
DI

T
h And you're trying to figure out what is an appropriate extent to allow yourself to stay sad, when to move on, when to count your blessings, when to accept things, when to fight things, and I think people struggle with that all their lives. And certain individuals develop their own style.
Ass

And nobody can dictate what is the best way or the right way for anybody to find the balance of having certain expectations. You know, the more you have expectations, the more you can be disappointed and hurt, sad, angry. But if you lower your expectations too much you feel an emptiness because you sort of expect nothing from anybody, and then you're sort of like dragging yourself through life, saying, “Well, no, I don't expect anything,” and not getting anything, and it sort of is a drag. So I guess every now and then you allow yourself to have some expectations, take some risks, and sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't.

P
t.:
Speaking of expectations, I've got two of my three marks for the semester, and I guess they're pretty good, but. . . .
These two excerpts illustrate certain characteristics that develop when the patient is fragile, the alliance is not solid, and the transference is addressed in an exploratory fashion. Both excerpts show how the focus on the transference is followed by a poorly modulated intense affective state in the patient.
In the first illustration, the patient stayed with an exploration of the transference relationship, but this appeared to provoke memories of terror and guilt as well as sadness, followed by a traumatic end to the session that probably damaged the alliance.
In the second vignette, the same patient reacts with confusion to the therapist's intervention, and her wall of defensive anger crumbles very quickly. She becomes overwhelmed by her sadness, and the remainder of the session is spent trying to shore her up by moving away from the transference. The therapist's quick, supportive interventions might illustrate that he too was surprised by how rapidly she became overwhelmed. His attempts to repair the rupture are not successful enough to keep the patient from discontinuing therapy.
This patient was not able to use the transference interpretation to elaborate and explore it further and to relate it to other experiences of significant relationship. In fact, the abrupt turning away from any mention of the transference probably indicates how frightening this topic is for her. A borderline patient with fragile defenses and poorly defined ego boundaries can feel very threatened by discussion of the here-and-now relationship with the therapist. The intense anxiety does not allow for abstract connections to be made. The patient cannot experience the relationship as an “as-if” model for exploring other relationships. Instead, it becomes “real” and threatening. The patient responded well to gentle questioning and exploration of relationships outside of the therapy.